初次正式看电视 Ice Age: A Mammoth Christmas

皓皓是个爱看电视的孩子。只要一有机会，他就把头晃来转去的要看电视。因为看电视对宝宝的视力和大脑发展很不好，麻麻是严禁皓宝看的！

不过今天圣诞夜，因为有Ice Age的特别节目，麻麻破例让宝贝看电视。

宝贝开始看得好认真好欢乐，可是后来有了广告。广告后他就失去兴趣了，左看右看，无法集中精神。罢也罢也，小婴儿大概就是这样的吧～～

麻麻想要培养勇敢独立的男孩子。。。

话说慢慢的，麻麻和粑粑还有外婆的教育理念出现了歧义。。。麻麻想要独立的皓皓。所以在确保皓皓安全的情况下，麻麻即使听到或者看到皓皓哭，也尽量不去抱他，想让他学习自我安慰。。。

可是每次外婆和粑粑就说麻麻不管皓皓。。。麻麻好委屈啊！

麻麻真的想要独立勇敢的男孩子！要皓皓快快长成男子汉！能保护家里人！

呃，麻麻该怎么办？！

三口之家的晚上

一直以来为了给皓爸皓妈争取晚上良好的睡眠，皓皓都是跟着外婆睡的。前天外婆缺血性心脏病发作，缺氧，呼吸急迫。麻麻觉得如果再让外婆再晚上管皓皓，实在太说不过去了。于是把皓皓弄来粑粑麻麻的房间睡。

呃，认识皓妈的人都知道皓妈爱睡觉又睡相差，而且一旦睡着了雷都轰不醒。麻麻实在不敢和皓皓睡一张床，生怕睡着了手脚挥舞出去压到了皓皓。最后决定三人横着睡，把皓宝放在靠床头的位置，粑粑睡皓皓旁边，麻麻睡在最外侧。

晚上睡觉的时候，麻麻忽然觉得好幸福啊！一家三口在一起的感觉真好真好啊！

真希望每晚都能这样。但是又怕粑粑太辛苦。因为麻麻睡得死沉死沉的，照顾皓皓的任务就完全落在皓爸身上了。麻麻要替儿子对粑粑说，爸爸你辛苦了！

感情需要建立？

当几个月前我向老婆宣布我爱上了一个男人时，那感觉似乎还有些朦胧。
人都说母乳亲喂是母子建立感情的捷径。皓宝妈咪也常常讲，这一过程是一种享受。可粑粑呢？至多只能眼巴巴的看着。
其实这是动物天性使然。父母去给他创造些什么，然后看着他尽情享受之，自己就陷入享受之中。如此往复直至你无法再提供他所要享用的，或这他不愿再接受你的赠与，这种关系就消失了。但生活并不会因此而黑暗。因为他虽不再依赖于你，但你却开始为他的小成就而自豪。
跑题了。。其实粑粑也是有那种愉悦的体验。比如，在皓皓熟睡时，为他剪指甲。轻轻握住他粉嫩小手，用指甲钳小心翼翼钳去长出部分，需仔细又有耐心。而他，时而因惊吓抖动身体，时而小手紧握着你，时而又不知做了什么美梦脸上挂满笑容。这样握着小手理着手指，近距离观察着他，心里又紧张又小激动，不可谓不享受。

biu 的，就掉下床去了

是滴！今儿皓宝就biu的一下，从床上掉下去了。
临近午饭时，皓宝要小睡一下，就让他睡在大床上妈妈身边。午饭时爸爸妈妈都出来吃饭，留下了皓皓一个人在床上。看他睡得很踏实，并且一边放了枕头，另一边离床沿还有很大的距离，就没有太在意。
可是皓皓睡醒后是很安静的，就一个人在那里玩。东瞧瞧，西望望。觉得无聊就翻翻身，换个角度看。可不知不觉中，就翻到了床边。等我们听到哭声时，他已经在地板上了。
女佣是第一个冲进房间里，把他抱起来的。所以我们也没搞清楚他是摔倒了身体哪个部位。皓皓哭声很大，在大家的安慰下很快就又露出笑容。看来摔得不重，只是受到了惊吓。
虽说每个宝宝都是从摔摔碰碰中长大的。可小家伙突然来这么一下，还是挺心疼。不管怎样，皓宝的第一次摔跤，纪念一下！

看着你 一天天长大

皓皓长大了。从他开始关注大人们吃饭的时候，就发现他，长大了。尤其是很久没有给他洗过澡的霸霸，看到他在澡盆里已显拥挤时，他真的长大了。

小家伙开始变得不听话，开始变得有脾气，开始有自己的style. 因为他长大了。

今天，给长大了的他，尝试了一点辅食。他很喜欢，很欢迎，一点排斥的意图都没有。小舌头很灵活的掌控食物，连舔带吃吞咽动作一气呵成。赞！

Starting Solids: What You Need, What to Feed

http://www.whattoexpect.com/first-year/week-23/starting-solids.aspx?xid=nl_YourDailyNewsletterfromWhattoExpect_20121205

Is your baby ready to start solid food? Once you've gotten the pediatrician's okay (usually between four and six months), and your little one is holding his head up well, has outgrown his tongue-thrust reflex (that's when he instinctively pushes solid things out of his mouth to protect himself from choking — smart kid!), seems interested in what's on your plate, it's showtime! Here's how to get started.

What you need: To contain mess (good luck!), you'll want a big, comfortable, washable (or wipeable) bib and a sturdy high chair (don't forget to strap your baby in, even if he doesn't seem wiggly — you both need to get in the safety habit). To deliver the goods, use a baby-sized spoon (plastic coating is a nice extra touch, since it's easier on little gums). If your baby keeps trying to grab the spoon, give him an extra one to hold while you swoop in with the chow. And don't forget your camera to capture his priceless first reaction to that yummy, runny stuff!

What to feed: Your pediatrician will probably recommend starting with rice cereal, since it's easy for babies to digest and unlikely to cause an allergic reaction. It's also fortified with iron, a nutrient that babies need in greater amounts after six months. Cereal is also a good choice if you're concerned about food allergies or know that your baby has a sensitive stomach. But recent studies have shown that babies can do just as well with mashed fruits, strained vegetables, full-fat yogurt, or even pureed meats as a first food. Whatever you choose, dilute it with enough breast milk or formula (not cow's milk or water) to make it very runny.

How to begin: Always use a spoon — it's not safe to mix cereal into your baby's bottle. He could choke or overeat, and anyway, your main goal with these first feeding sessions is to teach him a new skill. (He probably already knows how to drink from a bottle.) Start with just a tiny bit of food. Your baby will probably react with surprise, and most of those first few bites — actually, the first few meals — will come sliding right back out of his mouth. But keep trying. If he's really ready for solid food, soon his input will overtake his output. For now, he needs just one meal a day; breast milk or formula still provides the majority of his calories and nutrients. For the happiest results (and the least frustration) plan his meals for when he seems most hungry and is alert and cheerful.

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